Thursday, February 21, 2008

Inviduality Vs Behaviour

Why do we behave?
It is to be with and live with soceity.

Society??? What is it? Mainly grouped with people.
Why do we have to learn in first case to behave and to want others to behave?

Well, people from one culture are brought up or grown up in a paricular method or by set of rules, so as others.
As long as you are not moving in with different culture people, you might not get chance to behave.
To avoid culutural combat, we (people across all cultures) adopted to a certain behaviour, so that no one annoys others.

Makes Sense!!
Do you mean an individual doesn't own any behaviour model?

No, he does own the same model that of his culture.
To communicate among persons of same culture/community, he might need to learn,
from parents or schools, of how to behave.

All right!
Then, what is wrong with behaviour?

There is no harm in behaving as long as it does not kill one's individuality.

Okay, how does one identify that his behaviour is dominating his individuality?
Symptoms are, one does not enjoy with himself.
It is difficult to be alone.
He/She can not spend time with out thinking for atleast 5 minutes.
And so on...

Be an individual.